Monday, March 29, 2010

My Side Of The Bed


I usually get up at 6 in the morning to get my day started and have everything prepared before I go to work. Since Leih doesn't have a fixed schedule as I do, I have to make adjustments with his available time, letting him sleep longer during the day as he is mostly on night-shift at RWM.

It had been the usual morning for me when I decided to just snap on some pictures of my husband fast asleep with our baby doggie Zach who sneaked just right beside him, taking my side of the bed. It was one of those lovely shots that took my fancy and so, I clicked my cellphone cam without him knowing... They have no idea I'm writing a blog about them, Leih's gonna be surprised when he sees this. (LOL)

Monday, March 15, 2010

The Mrs.' First E.R. Story.

It was almost 3 when I got a call from Mommy yesterday. I heard the worry in her voice as she told me, Leih's got fever and he's been in and out of the bathroom since noon. She wanted me to come home asap and have my husband brought to the E.R. immediately. Mommy has always been the "panicky" type, (guess that's where I got that side of me), but then, I couldn't blame her, I too got worried. Leih's never been the type who complains, so I know he must really be very sick.

As soon as I got home, I gave him a sponge bath and decided to bring him to the nearest hospital in our place. When the doctor advised him to stay in the hospital for the night, that's where it all sank on to me... Leih's being confined in the hospital for fear of losing electrolytes and water, it could have been worse if I hadn't brought him in...

I had to go back home to pick up his dinner and some stuff, and of course, I had to feed my two adorable dogs before I headed back to the hospital. I was worried too about Mommy whom I left alone in the house with Zach and Milky... but what choice do I have? It was something I had to do...

I didn't get enough sleep that night. Though we got a private room, the bed was still uncomfortable to sleep in, plus the fact that I kept on checking his temperature from time to time. I felt like a real wife doing the "real work"... It was a first for me..

After 24 hours, Leih demanded to go home despite the doctor's advice of staying in until the next morning.. I couldn't make him stay any longer... Upon getting home, I felt so drained of energy.. It had been only 24 hours and yet, it was enough to zap me off what energy I had left in me, it even managed to build my splitting migraine...

One realization I came to after this: It isn't easy being a wife... but then, it all comes in a package.. I guess, there's always a first time for everything...

Thursday, March 11, 2010

A Peek Into The Real Life After the Fairytale Wedding....


It has been months since I started contemplating on making a new blogsite. With the new role I willingly embraced, every minute meant something. I was suddenly busy with a whole lot of things like taking care of my husband's needs, tending more to household chores and juggling work at the same time. It was truly an adjustment for me but an adjustment I found solace in doing.

And now, , I feel like writing again. So many things keep coming into my mind and I could hardly write it all down on my Facebook Notes so making a new blogsite for the whole new me is a smart idea after all.

What happens really after that short-lived Fairytale wedding? Well, it's all here... =)